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Facts, myths about frigidity: Why Some Women Cannot Enjoy S-ex

Posted by Unknown Kamis, 07 November 2013 0 komentar
QUESTION:
My Partner is se-xually frigid. There is nothing I do se-xually that moves her. Please help me, I am getting frustrated. What can we do?
*******Mr. Jones***
Se-xual frigidity can be a problem in marriage, but this article will go a long way in helping to educate the likes of Mr. Jones and his wife.
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According to the Oxford Advanced Learner dictionary, frigidity in women is the lack of the ability to enjoy se-x. With about 7 billion people on earth and over half of this number being women, it is not impossible some women are born physically incapable of experiencing orgasm.

When a woman finds it impossible to experience orgasm or enjoy se-x, the problem is usually emotionally caused and not physically induced. That is why it has been said that a woman's greatest se-x organ is her mind. There is no reason why every woman should not have regular and frequent orgasms, if she wants to. No psychiatrist has ever seen a woman with this condition who was raised by loving parents in a warm, secure family environment. Most women who suffer from orgasmic impairment suffered serious emotional deprivation during childhood and after.


It has been discovered that women raised by loving and caring parents usually enjoy the pleasure of lovemaking more than those raised by cruel and unloving parents. This is so because the warm father-daughter love relationship experienced during a girl's formative stage plays a very important role in whom she grows to become. That is why every father must open his heart and his arm to his daughter at all times, and this I can say, is strange to the norms in Africa, where the girl-child is seen as "her mother's child" while the male-child is embraced and cuddled by the father.

As a father, opening your heart and your arm to your girl-child now will not only help to build her self-worth and give her a sense of belonging, it will also inform the kind of relationship she will have in the future with her husband and children. Every time a father engages in acts that can turn his daughter off from him, he is sowing a negative seed into her future. Fathers need to know that they are the first contact their daughters have of the opposite s-ex. Whatever they believe of you is what they will believe of every man including their future husbands.

S-exual frigidity is usually a result of emotional withdrawal from the opposite se-x that can be well developed by the time a girl is six years. Cold, selfish fathers are the greatest cause of cold, frigid women.

Dealing with a frigid wife
Frigidity in women can be overcome with great determination on their part and with tender loving care from their husband. A man with a frigid wife must know it is not by her making that she is that way, and also know that his wife's rejection of him is not about him but a carryover from childhood. She is the way she is because of the nasty treatment she got from her father and therefore, in order to help her, he must do all to prove to her that he loves her and that he is not like her father.


This is definitely a task that requires some patience. Every action should be kind and tender. Avoid raising your voice at her because this will only remind her of how her father treated her in the past as a child, and make her see a similarity in you and her father, and convincing her that you are different will be difficult. Treat her with dignity and respect both in the public and private, and gradually she will come out of her cocoon. And once her mind becomes cleared, her body will be responsive.

Why get married at all when you know you are frigid?
This is a common question husbands of women suffering from frigidity ask their wives, but such men need to know that many of these women are not even aware they have such a problem. In fact, many of such women were eager to get married because they wanted to get away from their fathers and because they were in search of the love they missed at home.

They find themselves in marriage before they realise they are unable to open themselves up and receive the love of their husbands. And many times, they have no clue as to why it is so. They just believe they are so because that is who they are made to be. It takes a psychiatrist or somebody knowledgeable in this field to open their eyes to the root of their problem and when this is done, the problem is half solved.


What if as a woman I don't like s-ex and I don't even want to like it?
This is most likely a result of your resentment for your father which has now been transferred to your husband. Over the years, because of your experience with your father and what you have come to believe of men, you have built a shell of psychological self-protection around yourself and this has stifled your natural flow of emotions, making you a selfish person that is only concerned about herself, incapable of receiving and giving love.

And this of course is not the way God designs us to live. By the law of cause and effect, whatever you do not sow you cannot attract. The truth is, if you do not make serious effort in changing your stand, it may cost you your home. This is because this kind of attitude, rather than protect us, hurts us the more. Emotional self-protection doesn't really keep you from being hurt, for it wounds everyone you love and consequently you yourself.


Apart from the above reason for se-xual frigidity in women, a good number of women may also experience what I call secondary se-xual frigidity. This occurs over a particular period in life when they suffer emotional trauma as a result of happenings in their lives such as uncaring attitude of their spouses, or neglect from their spouse over the years. Thus, they close up emotionally, and resent anything call se-x. And since se-x is a thing of the mind, it becomes impossible for them to enjoy it.

Culled from s-exh

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Actress Liz Anjorin Talks about dumping Christianity for Islam

Posted by Unknown Kamis, 31 Oktober 2013 0 komentar

Popular actress Liz Anjorin surprised many recently when photos of her on Muslim Pilgrimage to Mecca surfaced the web. She later announced that she was changing her religion from Christianity to Islam. She also dropped the name Elizabeth and announced that she want to be addressed as Aisha, in light with her new religion. Liz has finally exposed why she made the decision..

Continue to see what Liz tells City People after the break.

"It just happened in a miraculous way which I have now been expecting for long, not that I woke up yesterday & decided to alter my religion. By birth, I was half Muslim and half Christian. My father was Christian while my mum was Muslim. Growing up I went along to church because of my father. I didn't have a choice at the time but I've always had interest in Islam so immediately my dad died I switched over to my mum's religion. It is just a religion I really like so much. Also Aisha is now my official name though Liz continues to be my name and I'll continue steadily to utilize the name to do movies.


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Head of the US intelligence publishes classified materials about NSA - Full Update

Posted by Unknown Selasa, 29 Oktober 2013 0 komentar

Head of the US National Intelligence James Clapper has released several secret documents about the programs of surveillance of the National Security Agency (NSA), EFE reports Tuesday.

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Most of the documents are dated back to 2009. There are also materials, which date back to 2011, the Agency says.
The documents state that the US Department of Justice authorized gathering of data about conversations on mobile phones, starting with 2010.
Other materials report that the NSA, FBI and the Ministry of Justice informed congressmen of their intention to increase the collection of metadata of phone calls, including phone numbers and time of calls, but not their contents.
By publishing these documents, James Clapper tries to convince US citizens that the NSA's programs of surveillance do not violate their right to privacy.
As it was reported, the materials published by former employee of the CIA Edward Snowden stated that the NSA had conducted surveillance over the governments of a number of European countries, including Germany, Spain and France, as well as over ordinary citizens.

US mass surveillance of European Union citizens is genuine concern - European MP
British Member of European Parliament of Labour Party, Claude Moraes, a member of the delegation, told reporters that "this mass surveillance of European Union citizens is genuine concern." He also said he and his fellow delegates were unsatisfied with the responses from US officials on the issue.
"They’re giving us answers, but not the answers we want," Mr. Moraes said.
Spain, which is, reportedly, one of the latest targets of the NSA snooping activities, has urged the United States to give details of any eavesdropping. One the latest allegations published by El Mundo newspaper is that the NSA tracked 60 million Spanish telephone calls in a month.

Spain’s Minister for European Affairs, Inigo Mendez de Vigo, described such practices as "inappropriate and unacceptable."
Additionally, the NSA has tracked more than 46 phone calls in Italy. That’s according to the US website Cryptome.

That prompted Italian Prime Minister Enrico Letta to question US Secretary of State John Kerry about the alleged snooping.  Despite all that, Italian intelligence agency failed to confirm the information.
Cryptome also revealed information that during the same month the NSA monitored 360 million phone calls in Germany, 70 million in France, and near two million in the Netherlands.

Meanwhile, Senator Diane Feinstein, who chairs the Senate Intelligence Committee, has been quoted as saying that she was "totally opposed" to the National Security Agency’s intelligence gathering on leaders of US allies. Senator Feinstein pledged that her committee will undertake a major review into all intelligence collection programs.

White House says US intelligence gathering may require 'additional constraints'
Washington has acknowledged the need for additional constraints on US intelligence gathering. Spokesman Jay Carney has said an ongoing White House intelligence policy review would take into consideration 'privacy concerns'.

President Barack Obama has full confidence in the director of the National Security Agency, General Keith Alexander, and other NSA officials, said White House spokesman Jay Carney. He added that there should be a balance between the need to gather intelligence and the need for privacy.

"We recognize there needs to be additional constraints on how we gather and use intelligence," Carney said.
A White House review of US surveillance capabilities is well under way and should be completed by the end of the year, Carney said.


US spying on allies is 'inappropriate and unacceptable' - Spain's minister
Outrage in Europe over US surveillance operations widened Monday after a report that the National Security Agency (NSA) tracked 60 million Spanish phone calls in one month.

The US spy agency intercepted the calls between December 10 and January 8 and mined data from internet searches, email and social networking sites such as Facebook and Twitter, El Mundo newspaper reported.
The documents have shown the US engaging in large-scale surveillance of foreign governments and citizens, from rivals such as China and Russia to allies in Europe and South America.
Spain's minister for European affairs, Inigo Mendez de Vigo, questioned the US ambassador to Spain, James Costos, for some 40 minutes Monday over the latest snooping claim, the government said.
Such spying among friends was "inappropriate and unacceptable," Mendez de Vigo said.
The US embassy in Madrid said after the meeting that the surveillance programmes have aided the security interests of both countries.
The uproar to Italy, where the Wikileaks-style website Cryptome claimed the NSA spied on 46 million calls in that country in a one-month period in December and January.
The embarrassing disclosures come on the heels of a report last week that the NSA had tapped German Chancellor Angela Merkel's mobile phone. The German Foreign Ministry summoned the US ambassador for the first time since World War II.
In a Wall Street Journal story, NSA officials for the first time admitted clandestine monitoring of some 35 world leaders. President Barack Obama was unaware of the spying, and the White House only halted the practice a few months ago after an internal review, the newspaper reported.
White House spokesman Jay Carney would not comment on the report that Obama had been unaware until recently of long-running monitoring of world leaders. The White House was conducting a review of US intelligence operations, and Obama believed the US should "not just be collecting data because we can, but because we should," Carney said.
He defended the broader surveillance measures as necessary in a more technologically interconnected world.
"If we're going to keep our citizens and our allies safe, we have to continue to stay ahead of these changes, and that's what our intelligence community has been doing extraordinarily well," Carney said, while acknowledging the need for a review of US surveillance efforts.
The review ordered by Obama is to be completed by the end of the year. The Guardian journalist Glenn Greenwald, who has reported many of Snowden's leaks, rejected White House suggestions that the sprawling data collection was needed to combat terrorism.
"None of this has anything to do with terrorism," he told broadcaster CNN. "Is Angela Merkel a terrorist?"
Pressure was growing on the administration within Congress, as Dianne Feinstein, chairwoman of the Senate Intelligence Committee, sharply criticized the NSA, which she has defended in the past, and call for an investigation into the spying of foreign leaders.

Visiting EU parliamentarians were in Washington for meetings including White House national security staff, top intelligence officials, the State Department and others.  German government spokesman Steffen Seibert said the government had "no new information" on allegations of wiretapping by American intelligence services.
"We are in the process of clearing up this serious case," he said, adding that "Germany and the US can solve these problems together."
Berlin said its intelligence chiefs and representatives of the chancellor's office would be sent to Washington to demand answers. The timing of the trip was still unknown, Seibert said, but it is expected to include a meeting with NSA representatives.
He declined to say what questions had not been answered by US authorities following a similar Washington visit in June, after initial revelations of US spying activities on citizens in Germany and Europe.
Germany and Brazil are set to introduce a non-binding UN General Assembly resolution Tuesday against spying on electronic communication, a UN diplomat said.
Brazilian media reported in September that the NSA had monitored President Dilma Rousseff's phone and email communications with her advisers, prompting her to call off a state visit to Washington.
At a summit last week dominated by the deepening row, the European Union appointed Merkel and French President François Hollande to lead an effort to bring the United States to account in the scandal and restore trust within the Atlantic alliance.

NSA collected data on 60 mln phone calls in Spain in one month
The US National Security Agency intercepted and collected data on 60 million phone calls in Spain from December 2012 to January this year without prior consent of the Spanish authorities. The El Pais newspaper reports today that the information to that end has been presented by a British journalist Glenn Greenwald, who is publishing revelations by the former US special service agent Edward Snowden.
El Pais adds that the National Security Agency was not interested in the content of the conversations, it only determined the duration of the conversations, identified the phone numbers and established the whereabouts of subscribers.
The newspaper also reports that the US Ambassador to Spain has been summoned to the Foreign Ministry of the Kingdom in compliance with an order from Prime Minister Mariano Rajoy. The move has been prompted by local press reports about US special service spying on millions of rank-and-file Spaniards, as well as politicians and government members of the kingdom.

More that 46 million phone calles tracked by NSA in Italy
New information is coming out on NSA surveillance. It has been revealed that the spy agency was tracking phone calls in Italy. More than 46 million calls were checked by the US according to the US website Cryptome. Previously, was learned that the NSA was tracking phone calls in Germany, including those of German Counselor Angela Merkel. As it appears the agency listened to millions of users all across Europe.
Cryptome reported that in a month's time the phone data of the users has increased enormously and as well as the duration of calls.

Enrico Letta, Italian Prime Minister stated last week that this kind of behavior is "inconceivable and unacceptable." Later on, he questioned John Kerry, the US Secretary of State about the information revealed. What was bothering Letta is not the surveillance but hiding the truth from the Italian officials. "Obviously, all checks should be done, but we want the whole truth. It's not acceptable or conceivable that there are activities of this kind.”

Despite all that, Italian intelligence agency couldn’t confirm the information. In the statement they released it was stated that one should differentiate between 
“spying” and "monitoring.” In the same statement the government reports: “There is no evidence that the United States is spying on Italian citizens.”
At the same time, Cryptome also revealed information that during the same month the NSA monitored 361 million phone calls in Germany, 70 million in France, 61 million in Spain, and 1.8 million in the Netherlands.
No matter which way it is, these revelations are deepening the scandal between the US and its allies. Last week, it was reported that German Counselor is wishing to hold a meeting with European and the US representatives to receive an official statement on the US activity.

US halts its surveillance programs of allied heads of state - report
The US National Security Agency stopped tapping the phones of German Chancellor Angela Merkel and other world leaders once the White House learned of its activities. The media has shared more details on the federal government’s attitude towards massive surveillance.

The Wall Street Journal reports that the NSA program to bug the phones of its allies' leaders was scrapped as soon as the Obama administration got wind of it. However, it did not abort all surveillance programs as many of them brought intelligence benefits. The only fact that has been confirmed is the subsequent debugging of Merkel’s cell-phone.

The Wall Street Journal also claims that Barack Obama was kept in the dark about the NSA program targeting world leaders during his five-year presidency. According to the US paper, the NSA cannot inform the head of state about all of its numerous projects. Some of them are signed into force by the NSA chief and don’t need presidential approval.

Last summer, UK and US media blew the lid off the spy agency’s total surveillance programs that were exposed in the classified documents leaked by former NSA contractor Edward Snowden. The ensuing furore prompted the White House to open an internal investigation into the agency’s dealings that showed the NSA had monitored the phone calls of 35 foreign leaders.

NSA had tapped the phones of some 35 world leaders - report
The White House ended programs tracking several of the leaders including Merkel, according to the Journal.
Some programs have been scheduled to end but have not yet been terminated, the Journal said.
Officials told the Journal that there are so many NSA eavesdropping operations that it would not have been practical to brief the president on all of them.
Obama was "briefed on and approved of broader intelligence-collection 'priorities," but deputies decided on specific intelligence targets, the Journal said.
 "These decisions are made at NSA," the unnamed official told the Journal.
"The president doesn't sign off on this stuff." Ending a surveillance program is complicated because a world leader like Merkel may be communicating with another leader that Washington is monitoring, officials told the newspaper.

Germany's Bild am Sonntag weekly quoted US intelligence sources on Sunday as saying that NSA chief General Keith Alexander briefed Obama on the operation against Merkel in 2010. In Washington, NSA spokeswoman Vanee Vines denied the claim.
Alexander "did not discuss with President Obama in 2010 an alleged foreign intelligence operation involving German Chancellor Merkel, nor has he ever discussed alleged operations involving Chancellor Merkel," said Vines . "News reports claiming otherwise are not true," she added.

The snooping allegations, based on documents leaked by fugitive former US defense contractor Edward Snowden, indicate that US spy agencies accessed the electronic communications of dozens of world leaders and likely millions of foreign nationals.

Germany may summon Edward Snowden as witness in Merkel phone tapping case
The German Federal Prosecutor’s Office may summon former CIA employee Edward Snowden to be a witness in the case of phone tapping against German Chancellor Angela Merkel, German Justice Minister Sabine Leutheusser-Schnarrenberger told the Deutschlandfunk radio on Sunday.
“If our suspicions prove correct and a case is opened, the German Federal Prosecutor’s Office will have to consider the possibility of interrogating Snowden as a witness,” she said, adding that there would be no major obstacles to that effect.
In that case, if Snowden came to Germany, the German government could defy Washington’s demand for his extradition, the minister said.

At the same time, Leutheusser-Schnarrenberger called for the speedy signing of an agreement with the United States which would rule out mutual espionage and be open for other countries to join in.
German Interior Minister Hans-Peter Friedrich said, for his part, that illegal phone tapping was a crime and that the culprits should be made accountable.

Sources:  RT, AFP, Foreign Policy, Reuters, TASS, Interfax, Voice of Russia,

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9 Surprising Things Men Don't Know About Female Má*sturbation

Posted by Unknown Senin, 28 Oktober 2013 0 komentar


Men, bless them. They love to think about us másturbating, at least the way they think we mást-urbate based on pórn they’ve seen. If only they could be a fly on the wall when we’re actually pleasuring ourselves.
Everything they thought to be true would be rocked.


A woman opens up about her másturbation sessions shares some myths men believe about másturbation.
1. We stick anything and everything in our váginas. I once had a guy pick up a sculpture of the Eiffel Tower I have on my bóokshelf and ask me if I ever stuck it in my vágina. “Are you kidding me?” I asked. He replied, “If I were a woman, I would be sticking stuff in my vágina constantly.” This activated my gérmophobia beyond belief. All I could think about was what kind of crazy yeast ínfection I would get if I put that thing in my vág. If I put anything in my vágina — a fingér, a víbrator, a pénis — I am extremely concerned with it’s cléanliness.

2. We always do it náked or in séxy lingerie. Men like the way I look náked, I know, but that doesn’t mean I get off on myself. I like my body, but I don’t stríp down or put on língerie to pleasure myself, at least not when díddling alone. I usually have my PJs on considering I tend to get business done before bed to help me fall asleep or when I wake up to help me get my áss up. I’m way too tired, lazy, or un-self-obsessed to take my clóthes óff.

3. That the mere sight of a d**k gets us off. I love d**ks for sucking, for f**king, for fondling. But I don’t look at d**ks when I másturbate, I usually think of the person attached to the pénis or the act associated with it. A disembodied d**k is not the least bit séxy to me. Másturbation, for me, always starts with an erotic thought, not a phantom pénis.

4. We mástu-rbate with our girlfriends. This idea kills me. Would I ever call my girlfriends up when I’m hórny and ask them to come over for a diddlé party? Hell no! Even if I were a lesbian, that wouldn’t happen. Másturbation is private unless I’m doing it in front of a séx partner for fun.

5. We fóndle our bóobs while we másturbate.  Maybe there are some woman out there who fondle their títs when they touch themselves. But I never have. I am just concentrating on getting the job done. Touching my own boóbs doesn’t even remotely excíte me.

6. We need to mástu-rbate every day. Our séx drives vary, lady to lady, and depending on phases in our lives. Personally, I’ve gone through periods of time where I do mástur-bate every day, or even several times a day. I’ve also gone through complete fondling droughts where I wasn’t into díddling myself for weeks. My self-pleasure drive is usually connected to my mental state or my hórmones. I get hórnier when I’m óvulating and when I have my period. My séx drive plumméts when I’m going through any kind of stressful life event.

7. We másturb-ate looking at pictures/pórn of hot guys or hot girls. I know a few women who look at pórn when they másturbate. Not me. It’s all in my head. I draw on past séxy experiences or fantasies when I’m doing it. I do look at pórn, but not while I’m másturbating. It will turn me on, then I’ll másturbate, usually thinking about something else.

8. We like to look at ourselves in the mirror or stand in front of windows while we do it. A guy once asked me if I másturbated in front of my living room window. I found this to be the most amusing question ever. I realize it was just because he wished he would walk by a window and find a woman másturbating. But no. Never. Watching myself or inviting some random person on the street to watch me does not turn me on. At all.

9. We stick our fingérs inside of us. Some of us do, of course, but some of us use vibes or other toys. Some of us just rub something against our clit and never put anything inside. Some of us húmp stuff. It depends what mood I’m in or how much energy I have. My fingérnails are too sharp for a lot of fingér action. I think I would lacérate my labía. No thanks
Extra. We think it’s really hot to mástu-rbate in the showér. Men probably believe this because THEY mást-urbate in the showér.  Actually, standing up is not an awesome position for me. I do have a showér head that I’ve aimed at my vágina before. I was like, Oh, there’s water shooting at my vágina. OK. Then I continued on with my showér. That was it.
Source: TheFrisky

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VIDEO: Watch Things Every guy Should know About Girls

Posted by Unknown Sabtu, 26 Oktober 2013 0 komentar
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